RIGHT TO COMMENT on POLITIC(S/IANS)

Incident inspired me to write this is Mumbai terror attacks which happened a way back.......
When i switched on the TV i found everyone criticizing politicians...


Don't know to what levels truth exists in those comments,
as i m least bothered about people showing off their heroism blaming them..
after listening to those comments i couldn't deny the fact that we need such politicians...
and we will be needing corrupted politicians as long as we are selfish...


Its really easy to say CRAP POLITICS 
as we are no where related to any politicians..
forgetting the fact that its you and me ,
who played major role in giving power to this so called  CRAP POLITICIANS...
counting proud citizens of INDIA from class 1st to elderly citizens who are about to die
very few come out with ideas of servicing and the path they choose is not politics for sure...


Observing present day scenario i call politics a great topic of discussion
and politicians as great magicians who can fool hundreds of people among which many knows that they are being fooled


None among us aim to change political situation in the country
we have many reason to support our ideology , but none of us are ready to realize
our necessity for the country (if u really believe u are better than current politicians)


If you feel you may fail in politics... our present politicians fought for their life time to achieve it ...all the chief ministers worked their life time to earn comforts for their last stages of life... they achieve their aim of being corrupted after a long struggle




for many of us who wants comforts easily earning that working for MNC,s
so whats wrong in politicians who selected the path less traveled by for finding new directions where they are kings as there is no competition




give them competition and get your RIGHT TO COMMENT
don't misuse your RIGHT TO SPEAK

Behave like a girl........

I m not sure how many are gonna say this to me after reading this .... :P ;)

"Behave like a girl"....

such a famous phrase,everyone of us must have listened 

atleast once in our life time, mostly when a girl uses her freedom to talk 

or freedom to express herself or mostly when she uses her freedom to live

(as she wishes).....i wonder why especially behave like a girl but why not
behave like human......

everyone judges a girl framing a big list of what nots 

our eyes open wide when we find something regarding a girl

we try to restrict girl from being herself since the moment she feels she is a human

I personally feel in ancient days when men decided to work and women are asked 

to look after the household duties, the main reason that comes out is females are tender

soft as a flower and sensitive as a touch me not..... 

Is this true can any man dare to think of pains during pregrency

can any man be as tough as a women during that period???

still why are women potrayed like that .....women here are

worshipped as goddess but kept in a temple and locked

where she is supposed to feel that she is goddess knowing the 

fact that she dont have power to look outside............ PATHETIC GODDESS.....

just imagine once seetha fighting with our ideal lord rama saying

its me who proved my loyalty and why should i get out ,prove yourself

and stay back or else its you who should leave 

as she didnt do this that day she became ideal for every girl who suffers......

what if draupadi had slapped arjuna and said who r u to decide to share me

i m a human with feelings and enough senses to judge for myself
dharm raj wouldnt have dared to bet on her 

If something happens against a girl almost everyone pities the girl
but noone dare not to treat that girl normal as others
Many of us must have observered the sentence that
a girls character is as fragile as a piece of glass that doesnt
mean boys can make mistakes that only means
we cant forgive a girls small mistake but we can
forgive a boys biggest crime ....

what i wish to say is behave like a human
but not behave like a girl

LOVE IS LIFE....... HENCE PROVEN

I am not a poetess to describe love in beautiful terminology....
just expressing what i observed in day to day life....

i feel love and marriage are two different relations in world...
people marry the person they love just because they dont
wanted him or her to be a half of someone, thats nothing
but jealous.. "i cant live without marrying him/her"look at this, does that
mean your love is physical in appearance...i cant accept
someone as my better half just because i dont love him/her is
fine but i cant accept him/her because i love someone else is stupid.....
not loving a person is far different from loving different person...

and most important thing "you love your mother father brother
sister and friends"so love is not confined to single person....
but why this society opposes when u love more than one
of your opposite sex...what our culture opposes is multi sexual
relationships but not love ..why cant soceity understand this....
 for the people who feels love is for
marriage or satisfying your physical needs love is not exactly
necessary for that, its only your adrenaline rush which is necessary...
for a sexual relationship so called marriage it is necessary to love your
partner doesnt mean you shouldnt love someone whose shoulder is comfortable for your tears
or whose support in your life is making you lead a successful life who may not be the same
person you are in relation with.........
when someone says i love you ....people over react to that saying i dont
or else i m lucky ....here i m referring who rejects but nt accepts....
 why cant anyone thank for someone who loves you
rather than bluntly saying i dont .....he/she loves you doesnt mean you have
to get into so called committment ......thats your next decision..... accepting
love is not accepting committment

why people wanna try to hide their love from someone ????
when people fly away from houses just for the person they loved
why people sacrifices their best friends for the person they love moaning
inside ...why people try to hate the stuff they loved once just because
your partner said so.... is love towards your friends that weak???
is love towards your stuff is so unbounded???if you can change
opinion towards them is it sure that you cant change your
opinion on your partner?????

selfishness is first asset of love
jealousy is next
but these ll increase your love but dont lead to breakup
for example you feel jealousy for your mother love when
she is with your siblings which dont decrease love for her
but your love for him/her decreases when u see him/her
with someone else...


you fight a lot with your brother/sister still you dont break up
why do you break up just for a small reason with him/her????
why do you expect lots of things from him/her on the name of love?????
why do you wanna snatch his/her freedom of saying i miss you to someone??????
why do you wanna fight with him/her for not alloting 1 hour time for you?????
why do you want him/her to say i love you only to you?????????
why do you want to keep a check on him/her????
if he/she is really ready to get committed with you why do you stil afraid???????
if he /she is playing with your feelings feel sorry for yourself for loving such person
but never say you dont love him/her ....
the role she/he played in your life is really memorable....
she/he might have given you pain, but they were able
to give pain just because they gave you heavenly pleasure once...
that is what u need to consider in love....

frame your memories life is nothing but them
love gives memories nothing else
marriage sex children etc etc are secondary

love is nothing but memories and memories inturn is life
that is real meaning of love if you can understand

hence proven love is life

transformation of life

21 years of life.... a short span of life is what people calls 

then i can say trasformations happened in this period as rapid transformations

now when i look back at my 21 years i just feel life is nothing but transformations

some for good and some for better...biggest transformation is a heartful smile to 

salty tears...... a girl with brightest eyes possible always looking for

a chance to change this boring life... in order to change the life ,the pranks she

done and the risks she took just remained most beautiful memories.... a hopeless

girl who never cared about career and life got the biggest oppurtunity (dream of many)

to succeed in career...then started the original life of her started hoping that everything goes

well in life found definition of life is just hope ... heartful smiles of her turned to be social smiles

just to hide her presence in society and remain in darkness pretention is really necessary

a daring girl who can say f*** off to anyone who she felt is against her is now 

hesitating to say its none of your business.. once she smiled at her friends who said 

u r best person and now she is smiling at back bitchers who says she is a looser

emotions is what is carried always but she never knew that some emotions exist 

which causes tears.. she always found happiness in people around leaving about

whats good and whats bad but this newly trasformed kid is still searching for 

happiness around but searching in lonliness .... stubborness in her which always say

no to rules is completely vanished just like a magic ..... a social freak who hated

darkness in night wantd brightness always remained in darkness part of life for 

more than 3 years....a sleepy lazy girl who sleeps to forget this world is nw sleeping

to enter her dreamworld ......

finally my life my career my work my failures observe this

there is you no where and dnt want you to be there

:)