Sunday, January 16, 2011

Behave like a girl........

I m not sure how many are gonna say this to me after reading this .... :P ;)


"Behave like a girl"....

such a famous phrase,everyone of us must have listened 
atleast once in our life time, mostly when a girl uses her freedom to talk 
or freedom to express herself or mostly when she uses her freedom to live
(as she wishes).....i wonder why especially behave like a girl but why not
behave like human......

everyone judges a girl framing a big list of what nots 
our eyes open wide when we find something regarding a girl
we try to restrict girl from being herself since the moment she feels she is a human
I personally feel in ancient days when men decided to work and women are asked 
to look after the household duties, the main reason that comes out is females are tender
soft as a flower and sensitive as a touch me not..... 
Is this true can any man dare to think of pains during pregrency
can any man be as tough as a women during that period???
still why are women potrayed like that .....women here are
worshipped as goddess but kept in a temple and locked
where she is supposed to feel that she is goddess knowing the 
fact that she dont have power to look outside............ PATHETIC GODDESS.....
just imagine once seetha fighting with our ideal lord rama saying
its me who proved my loyalty and why should i get out ,prove yourself
and stay back or else its you who should leave 
as she didnt do this that day she became ideal for every girl who suffers......
what if draupadi had slapped arjuna and said who r u to decide to share me
i m a human with feelings and enough senses to judge for myself
dharm raj wouldnt have dared to bet on her 

If something happens against a girl almost everyone pities the girl
but noone dare not to treat that girl normal as others
Many of us must have observered the sentence that
a girls character is as fragile as a piece of glass that doesnt
mean boys can make mistakes that only means
we cant forgive a girls small mistake but we can
forgive a boys biggest crime ....

what i wish to say is behave like a human
but not behave like a girl
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19 comments:

  1. UnknownJanuary 18, 2011 at 8:32 AM

    Well people will have to change their mindsets, it takes time....they have to embrace the fact the women are equal..slowly but surely the change will come....with westernization this will happen..one of the positives of westernization as well as one of the many positives of globalisation

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  2. UnknownJanuary 19, 2011 at 10:16 AM

    thing is actually people like resisting changes.
    u cant say women are not treating equally everywhere. in some areas specially in villages people expect women should like seetha in ramayan.

    But society changing slowly. In cities u can see equality(almost).

    about this blog u really have good writing skills....

    nice keep it up.

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  3. meghanathJanuary 19, 2011 at 10:23 AM

    hey guys on this exact paragraph i have finished a three credit course called DEVELOPMENT ALTERNATIVES

    In tht we talk about how we can empower women in a topic called WOMEN AND/IN DEVELOPMENT
    and GENDER AND DEVELOPMENT

    @above comment
    i totally disagree wid u Mr.S.becoz westranization doesnot mean tht women will be given equal status or role to play in this society

    and actaully westranization making us loose our dignities towards women which we(INDIANS) used to have when we got the so called INDEPENDENCE .SO the thing is not to talk about westernization but to think about what are the changes you or me or we as a whole have to make in ourselves and daily life so tht we can bring in a change in this big multi lingual multi religious democratic nation


    Hey actually this is a very nice debatable topic i hope we all read some more about this
    TRY to google for the topics in mentioned so tht we can have a healthy educational discussion thru this blog

    any one need any books can visit www.iknowledge.hpage.com
    this give you the book if u can find the title and author

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  4. sravya geethikaJanuary 19, 2011 at 10:23 AM

    @:S why should we feel westernization shoud change us why should we feel some one to be our role models when will we become role models to someone

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  5. sravya geethikaJanuary 19, 2011 at 10:26 AM

    @ rakesh thank u

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  6. sravya geethikaJanuary 19, 2011 at 10:27 AM

    @ meghanath

    i m nt debating on the topic people here need to observe the

    phrase "BEHAVE LIKE A GIRL"
    i dnt want dat to be thats it

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  7. meghanathJanuary 19, 2011 at 10:29 AM

    hey i will try to post the references which need to be seen before we discuss about this topic in soon time

    actually i just forget the names of books right after completion of exams

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  8. sravya geethikaJanuary 24, 2011 at 11:52 PM

    exactly tinku........ guys worship them as goddess love a lot but never try to understand them.you guys decide the path and a girl is supposed to be happy with that....forgetting she is a human and have enough ability to decide what she wants but remained silent since years...and u guys can never understand what a girl wants and what she thinks
    not just because they r weird just because they cant express themselves in this weird society






    if u feel u understand a girl (one atleast)completely come to me dat day to prove guys just love girls nthing else

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  9. AnonymousJanuary 25, 2011 at 10:35 PM

    what i wish to say is behave like a human
    but not behave like a girl//

    hm u r write...
    'Girls dont behave like girl first behave like a human' :D

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  10. UnknownJanuary 27, 2011 at 11:03 PM

    i am not in a position to comment any thing regarding this phrase and the only thing i can do is to appreciate u for expressing ur feelings inside ur heart which so many have but not able to express and in my view the females are very very great in some things than males and thats why they have given the blessing of becoming a mother

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  11. SomuJanuary 28, 2011 at 12:58 AM

    ur title says "Behave like a girl" but wat hav u discussed in the post????? why seetha? why dravpathi? u could have discussed with some living examples rather than those..... i feel u missed the feel with which u started writing the post...its not complete.( This is jus my opinion )

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  12. sravya geethikaJanuary 28, 2011 at 1:03 AM

    i just sited why these women are role model fr girls who suffer

    its incomplete i agree just waiting fr someone who can fill it

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  13. sravya geethikaJanuary 28, 2011 at 1:47 PM

    tinku u know what everytime i take everything personally but this time its u whoz doing that


    importance of attention lolzzz ask your dearest women (ur mom,sis or best friend)
    how many times she felt, she got attention and how many times she gave her full attention....
    even when a guy tries to flirt or love he thinks he is paying attention to her but its her who pays attention silently from the way he walk to the way he tries holding her hand she pays her total attention on the guy but guy dont pay his attention on girl he pays his attention only on how to impress her thats it

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  14. SandyJanuary 28, 2011 at 8:30 PM

    @S : Well Mr/Mrs/Miss.S, as you said modernization and westernization came into play in this modern India...Yes,they do..The result is not in the field of Science&Technology or other but in the fields of SEX & Technology and nothing else...
    You can mail me@ iitr.sandy@gmail.com for any more clarifications or further discussions.

    @ Miss.Sravya Geethika R. : So Miss Sravya,by the above post I understood that you are aware of some facts and you lack knowledge regarding the same.
    My sincere suggestion to you is just have a portrait of a girl from early 80's or 90's and a portrait of a girl of 2011. Just compare those two portraits and observe the changes in the terms of so called modernization and westernization. Post the differences you observe as well your feelings and let everyone know what you feel.

    I don't want to just let my opinion out till you observe the changes, as I wish you to change your way of thinking.

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  15. UnknownJanuary 28, 2011 at 9:01 PM

    nice blog..... like like like super like :)....:)

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  16. sravya geethikaJanuary 29, 2011 at 3:32 AM

    @ mounika thank u

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  17. sravya geethikaJanuary 29, 2011 at 4:46 AM

    @ sandy sir
    i didnt support modernisation wat all i supported is when some girl committs something y people says behave like a girl mistake is a mistake for whole human race so y not behave like human y specially behave like a girl i think i never heard behave like a boy

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  18. Joy ForeverJanuary 30, 2011 at 8:28 AM

    @ Tinku... : Ask urself...U like 2 do wat u like.
    U dont understand wen some1 warns u.
    U come 2 know only wen u experience.
    And thats d point where u start to
    change and obviously u like that
    change as it brings lesser pain.
    Same is with girls...They want to experience it nd it is their very right to do so...Good or bad let them let them do so nd experience

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  19. sravya geethikaSeptember 26, 2011 at 4:36 PM

    @joy..i dont know who u r.But i agree with you and i just wonder when a crime is crime for all humans, where the hell this phrase came from

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