LOVE IS LIFE....... HENCE PROVEN

I am not a poetess to describe love in beautiful terminology....
just expressing what i observed in day to day life....

i feel love and marriage are two different relations in world...
people marry the person they love just because they dont
wanted him or her to be a half of someone, thats nothing
but jealous.. "i cant live without marrying him/her"look at this, does that
mean your love is physical in appearance...i cant accept
someone as my better half just because i dont love him/her is
fine but i cant accept him/her because i love someone else is stupid.....
not loving a person is far different from loving different person...

and most important thing "you love your mother father brother
sister and friends"so love is not confined to single person....
but why this society opposes when u love more than one
of your opposite sex...what our culture opposes is multi sexual
relationships but not love ..why cant soceity understand this....
 for the people who feels love is for
marriage or satisfying your physical needs love is not exactly
necessary for that, its only your adrenaline rush which is necessary...
for a sexual relationship so called marriage it is necessary to love your
partner doesnt mean you shouldnt love someone whose shoulder is comfortable for your tears
or whose support in your life is making you lead a successful life who may not be the same
person you are in relation with.........
when someone says i love you ....people over react to that saying i dont
or else i m lucky ....here i m referring who rejects but nt accepts....
 why cant anyone thank for someone who loves you
rather than bluntly saying i dont .....he/she loves you doesnt mean you have
to get into so called committment ......thats your next decision..... accepting
love is not accepting committment

why people wanna try to hide their love from someone ????
when people fly away from houses just for the person they loved
why people sacrifices their best friends for the person they love moaning
inside ...why people try to hate the stuff they loved once just because
your partner said so.... is love towards your friends that weak???
is love towards your stuff is so unbounded???if you can change
opinion towards them is it sure that you cant change your
opinion on your partner?????

selfishness is first asset of love
jealousy is next
but these ll increase your love but dont lead to breakup
for example you feel jealousy for your mother love when
she is with your siblings which dont decrease love for her
but your love for him/her decreases when u see him/her
with someone else...


you fight a lot with your brother/sister still you dont break up
why do you break up just for a small reason with him/her????
why do you expect lots of things from him/her on the name of love?????
why do you wanna snatch his/her freedom of saying i miss you to someone??????
why do you wanna fight with him/her for not alloting 1 hour time for you?????
why do you want him/her to say i love you only to you?????????
why do you want to keep a check on him/her????
if he/she is really ready to get committed with you why do you stil afraid???????
if he /she is playing with your feelings feel sorry for yourself for loving such person
but never say you dont love him/her ....
the role she/he played in your life is really memorable....
she/he might have given you pain, but they were able
to give pain just because they gave you heavenly pleasure once...
that is what u need to consider in love....

frame your memories life is nothing but them
love gives memories nothing else
marriage sex children etc etc are secondary

love is nothing but memories and memories inturn is life
that is real meaning of love if you can understand

hence proven love is life

transformation of life

21 years of life.... a short span of life is what people calls 

then i can say trasformations happened in this period as rapid transformations

now when i look back at my 21 years i just feel life is nothing but transformations

some for good and some for better...biggest transformation is a heartful smile to 

salty tears...... a girl with brightest eyes possible always looking for

a chance to change this boring life... in order to change the life ,the pranks she

done and the risks she took just remained most beautiful memories.... a hopeless

girl who never cared about career and life got the biggest oppurtunity (dream of many)

to succeed in career...then started the original life of her started hoping that everything goes

well in life found definition of life is just hope ... heartful smiles of her turned to be social smiles

just to hide her presence in society and remain in darkness pretention is really necessary

a daring girl who can say f*** off to anyone who she felt is against her is now 

hesitating to say its none of your business.. once she smiled at her friends who said 

u r best person and now she is smiling at back bitchers who says she is a looser

emotions is what is carried always but she never knew that some emotions exist 

which causes tears.. she always found happiness in people around leaving about

whats good and whats bad but this newly trasformed kid is still searching for 

happiness around but searching in lonliness .... stubborness in her which always say

no to rules is completely vanished just like a magic ..... a social freak who hated

darkness in night wantd brightness always remained in darkness part of life for 

more than 3 years....a sleepy lazy girl who sleeps to forget this world is nw sleeping

to enter her dreamworld ......

finally my life my career my work my failures observe this

there is you no where and dnt want you to be there

:)